Marriages can only be of God if it was done by someone God prepared and is guiding in everything. God would have given that person the anointing to break chains and prepare you both to come to him. He would have given the person discernment. You are not fighting against each other. Get flesh out of a spiritual battle. We wrestle not against flesh and blood Eph 6:12. God says the pastors refuse to surrender so the devil uses them as the basis for our attacks. They lead the attacks.
The witch and wizard exes and pastors are the enemies of marriages and relationships. They sell their souls to destroy you both, sleep and astral project into both of your bodies to come against each other, cheat or to not communicate. They cause every problem you have. The devil divides and conquer. You both are still slated for destruction/sacrifice but he does not want you fighting together (Where two or more are gathered Matt 18:20).
After they cause you to separate, the wizard pastor then uses the ex witch to project into a woman they can control to go to the man and a wizard they can control to go to the woman. If you are together they put a witch as a third party. They came to steal, kill and destroy. The pastor uses astral projection and witchcraft and blocks the couple from God, creates illusions and destroys both, then sacrifice them. They took on gay/pedophile and lesbian/pedophile spirits when they sold out, so they put the child with someone they can control until they have their way with them and sacrifice them, or prepare them to walk in their footsteps and become witches and wizards. This is the plan the devil has for marriages and relationships.
For the men, Proverbs 5 is very important and can save your lives. The scripture that tells us, be ye not unequally yoked. (2 Cor 6:14) is something to take heed to. Your familys lives depend on it. It is the unsaved one who is used by the devil to destroy you. Some of the things witches and wizards sleep and astral project into spouses bodies to do in marriages are:
*Lie, cheat, lack of communication, barrenness, refuse to support wife and children, call CPS, call mental hospital, turn MIL against wives, teen pregnancy, runaways, kidnapping, rape and gang rape, missing kids, human trafficking, pushing you down, circling with vultures, using birds and crows to carry their spirits or drop it on you, miscarriages, poverty, accidents, sickness and pain, robbery, murder, suicide, scamming, turn family members against you, bullying, children not learning, fire, etc.
Gods plan:
Surrender and let him lead. Both of you. You need anointings and spiritual gifts and for God to lead you in battle. You, or your spouse cant fight it. Tbe devil creates illusions with everything. You need Gods guidance to see beyond the illusion. For him to fix it is a step by step process. It takes time for God to work. It is for Gods glory. He says the gates of hell shall not prevail.